本集節目將從『社會情緒學習』(SEL)五大核心能力的「自我管理」(Self Management)出發 - 透過2句英文SEL金句、3本英語繪本、3首英文歌曲,以及分別給予孩子和爸爸媽媽的陪伴句 - 協助聽眾瞭解如何從「自動化反應」轉變為「溫和回應」。
This episode will focus on "Self Management", one of the five core competencies of Social Emotional Learning (SEL). Through two SEL quotes in English, three English picture books, three English songs, and supportive phrases for both children and parents, we will help listeners understand how to shift from "automatic reactions" to "gentle responses."
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1.「You can't stop the waves, but you can learn to surf.」(你無法阻擋海浪,但你可以學會衝浪。)
2.「Breathe. Let go. And remind yourself this very moment is the only one you know you have for sure.」(深呼吸、放下,然後提醒你自己:當下是你擁有的唯一時刻。)
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主題一:安靜下來的練習 - 從「反應」到「回應」
1. 三秒鐘的暫停
2. 把呼吸當作錨
3. 觀察與命名
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主題二:雙語共學
1.《My Magic Breath - Finding Calm Through Mindful Breathing》by Nick Ortner & Alison Taylor
2.《Mindful Monkey, Happy Panda》by Lauren Alderfer
3.《Breathe Like a Bear》by Kira Willey
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1.〈Just Breathe〉by Pearl Jam
2.〈What A Wonderful World〉by Louis Armstrong
3.〈Here Comes The Sun〉by The Beatles
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主題三:親子任務 - 練習「安靜下來」的心對話
1-1.「你願意一起深呼吸嗎?」(Would you like to take a deep breath together?)
1-2.「我們一起深呼吸,吸氣四秒,吐氣六秒。」(Let’s take a deep breath together: inhale for four seconds, exhale for six.)
2.「我會在這裡陪你,我們一起讓心跳慢下來。」(I’m here with you. Let’s slow our heartbeat together.)
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1-1.「我看到你現在很焦慮,你需要一些自己的空間嗎?」(I can see that you’re stressed out. Do you need some space for yourself?)
1-2.「當你心很亂的時候,你都用什麼方法來讓自己安靜下來?」(When your mind feels restless, what do you usually do to calm yourself down?)
2.「我知道你現在很失望。深呼吸,沒關係的。」(I know you're feeling disappointed right now. Take a deep breath – It's OK.)
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1.「我的心現在很亂,我需要先把自己安靜下來。」(My mind feels very restless right now. I need to calm myself down first.)
2.「深呼吸。我現在很安全,我的身體正在放鬆下來。」(Take a deep breathe. Now I am safe, and my body is relaxing.)